5 Eye-Opening Tips to Discover Your Blind Spots and Boost Success

timshurr • June 21, 2024

Today, let’s talk about something that we all have but rarely see — our blind spots.

Have you ever been cruising down the highway, decided to merge into the other lane, and suddenly swerved back because there was a car next to you that you didn’t see?

That’s always a fun jolt to the heart (for you and the other driver!)

We call that  “having someone in our blind spot”  because we can’t see them, even though they are there. We also have those pesky blind spots in our personal and professional lives, and they keep us from achieving our goals and having more inner peace.

Those who acknowledge their blind spots can more quickly identify what they are and how to resolve them. Those who do not tend to blame others because of ego or a lack of self-awareness or spend tremendous energy solving the wrong problems while stressing out those around them.

Imagine diligently pouring water into a bucket, day in and day out, trying every possible method to increase the amount of water in your bucket. Yet, the water level drops significantly at the end of each day regardless of how much you’ve added.

You install a fancy new hose, upgrade your faucet, and even perform a rain dance or two. But no matter what you do, the water level in that darn bucket just won’t rise.

Then, a neighbor walks by one day, looks down into your bucket with a magnifying glass, and says, “Hey, did you know there’s a hole in the bottom of your bucket?” Of course, you know how we would reply. “No there isn’t. I checked that already.” And that’s when we finally see the hole.

In life, our blind spots are like holes in the bucket. We can spend endless hours fixing what we think is the problem, only to find out later that we’ve been running fast in the wrong direction.

Then, because of embarrassment, pride, or a high opportunity cost (the bias that we’ve invested too much to stop), many resist, rebel, or shut down rather than view it as an opportunity to advance.

So, how do we find these blind spots before wasting more time, energy, and perhaps our sanity? Here are five ways to identify and resolve your blind spots.

  1. Phone a Friend (or a Coach) : Sometimes, we’re too close to the situation to see what’s glaringly obvious to others. Have you ever had salad stuck in your teeth, and nobody told you? Exactly. Find someone who isn’t afraid to tell you what’s stuck in your metaphorical teeth. Coaches, mentors, or brutally honest friends are gold for this.
  2. Listen to Feedback (Even When It’s Ouchy) : Feedback can be like a porcupine hug — awkward and slightly painful. But it’s also invaluable. When someone points out something you hadn’t noticed, don’t brush it off. Dive in, figure out if there’s a nugget of truth, and use it to patch that hole.
  3. Self-Reflection (But Not the Endless Loop Kind) : Take a step back and look at the big picture. Are you constantly solving the same problem? Maybe the issue isn’t the water but the bucket itself. Reflect on your patterns, but avoid the trap of endless rumination. That’s like using a magnifying glass to find an elephant — unnecessary and exhausting. And drop the self-criticism, too. Blind spots are a part of the human experience, so be kind to yourself, learn from this, and move on.
  4. Continuous Learning (Without the Overwhelm) : Knowledge is power, but only if applied correctly. Stay curious and keep learning, but also be selective. You don’t need a flood of information, just the right information to fix your specific leaky bucket. (i.e., Getting lost in YouTube videos that take you down endless rabbit holes when you can talk to an expert and solve your issue more quickly.)
  5. Take Action (Yes, You Actually Have to Do Something) : Once you’ve identified a potential blind spot, do something about it! Knowledge without action is like having a bucket without water — pretty useless. Recognizing the hole is only step one. You’ve also got to patch it and then watch how much easier it is to fill your bucket.

In conclusion, finding your blind spots is crucial. It’s the difference between spinning your wheels and actually getting somewhere. So, let’s all commit to a bit of honest self-evaluation and a touch of humility.

And maybe, just maybe, we can start laughing at our blind spots and make finding them a fun part of our growth journey.

Have a beautiful day…

Tim Shurr

P.S. If you need help finding the hole in your bucket (metaphorically speaking), let’s schedule a time to talk…

Athletes Reveal How Hypnosis Improves Sports Performance

By Tim Shurr • September 23, 2025
The difference between winning and losing in sports often comes down to more than physical strength or skill. At the highest levels, athletes know that the real edge lies in the mind. Confidence, focus, and the ability to stay calm under pressure are what separate champions from the rest of the field. At Indy Hypnosis, athletes are finding that hypnosis provides the mental boost they need to reach new levels of performance. Sports psychologists have long said that competition is as much a mental game as a physical one. Even the best training can fall apart when nerves take over or self-doubt creeps in. Hypnosis addresses these mental blocks directly by reprogramming the subconscious mind to respond with confidence, clarity, and determination. One young athlete came to Indy Hypnosis struggling with performance anxiety. On practice days, he excelled. But when it was time to compete, his nerves took control and his results fell short. After a series of hypnosis sessions, he broke through the mental barrier and went on to set five new personal records. “I didn’t feel nervous anymore,” he explained. “I felt like I could just do what I had trained to do.” Professional and recreational athletes alike report similar stories. Golfers find their swing more consistent. Runners feel a newfound endurance. Weightlifters hit personal bests without the voice of doubt holding them back. What all these athletes share is the realization that once the mind stops working against them, their natural ability shines. Hypnosis also helps with recovery. Injuries often leave behind not only physical scars but also mental ones. An athlete recovering from a torn ligament may hesitate, afraid of pushing too hard and risking another injury. Through hypnosis, those fears can be reframed, allowing the athlete to return with full confidence and a stronger focus on healing. Science backs up what these athletes describe. Studies show that hypnosis can improve concentration, reduce stress hormones, and increase motivation. By visualizing success under hypnosis, athletes create mental “rehearsals” that make the real event feel familiar, boosting confidence and performance on game day. For many, the biggest surprise is how natural the shift feels. They do not have to force positivity or pretend to be confident. Instead, confidence emerges as the default setting. “It wasn’t about tricking my brain,” one athlete shared. “It was about finally trusting myself.” Sports are built on fine margins, and those margins are often mental. With hypnosis, athletes are discovering that the edge they have been searching for has been inside them all along—waiting to be unlocked. If you are ready to take your performance to the next level, schedule a free consultation with Indy Hypnosis today and discover how hypnosis can help you win from the inside out.

Conquer Stress and Lower Anxiety With a Proven Hypnosis Method

By Tim Shurr • September 19, 2025
Stress has become the background noise of modern life. From deadlines at work to family responsibilities and the constant buzz of technology, it is no wonder that anxiety levels are at an all-time high. For many people, the pressure feels relentless, and traditional coping strategies like deep breathing or exercise often provide only temporary relief. At Indy Hypnosis, clients are discovering that hypnosis offers a deeper, more lasting solution. Unlike quick fixes, hypnosis works by calming the mind at its source. Stress is not just a reaction to circumstances; it is also the product of thought patterns that magnify worry and fear. The subconscious mind, which governs much of our emotional response, often gets stuck in loops of “what if” thinking. Hypnosis gently interrupts those loops, replacing them with calmer, more empowering messages. Clients frequently describe their sessions as surprisingly peaceful. One woman said it felt like “an hour-long vacation for my brain.” By the end, her racing thoughts had slowed, and she carried that calm with her long after the session was over. Another client, who had battled panic attacks for years, reported that the intensity and frequency of her episodes decreased dramatically after beginning hypnosis. Instead of feeling overwhelmed, she now feels in control. Science supports these experiences. Studies show that hypnosis can lower heart rate, ease tension, and reduce cortisol, the stress hormone that wreaks havoc on the body. This makes it more than just a mental shift; it is a full-body reset. Clients often notice they sleep better, concentrate more easily, and approach daily challenges with a clearer head. Perhaps the most striking difference is how natural it feels. Instead of forcing relaxation, hypnosis allows the mind to release its grip on anxious thoughts. As one client explained, “It wasn’t about pushing stress away. It was like my brain finally remembered how to relax.” Stress and anxiety do not have to rule life. With the One Belief Away Method, people are finding that the heavy burden of worry can be lifted, replaced with a steady confidence that carries them through each day. If you are ready to quiet the noise of stress and experience lasting calm, schedule your free consultation with Indy Hypnosis today. Relief is closer than you think.

Stop Smoking for Good With Hypnosis That Works

By Tim Shurr • September 19, 2025
For decades, quitting smoking has been one of the hardest challenges people face. Nicotine patches, chewing gum, prescription medications, and countless “quit plans” have promised results, yet relapse rates remain high. Many smokers desperately want to stop, but the grip of addiction seems stronger than sheer willpower. At Indy Hypnosis, however, clients are finding a path to freedom that feels both possible and permanent. The secret lies in addressing the mind, not just the habit. Smoking is not only a physical addiction but also a deeply ingrained behavioral pattern. For many, lighting up is tied to stress relief, social rituals, or even simple routines like a morning coffee. Trying to stop without addressing these subconscious connections often leads to frustration and relapse. Through hypnosis, those patterns begin to shift. The subconscious mind, which controls much of our automatic behavior, can be reprogrammed to disconnect cigarettes from their old triggers. Instead of fighting the urge every time stress arises, clients find the desire to smoke naturally fading. One client who smoked for thirty years described the experience as “like flipping a switch.” After her session, she no longer craved cigarettes, and the thought of smoking felt out of place rather than tempting. Another powerful story came from Yovanna, who struggled with smoking for three decades. She had tried everything else and felt convinced she would never break free. After working with Indy Hypnosis, she walked away from cigarettes with a sense of calm rather than struggle. What surprised her most was how natural it felt. “I wasn’t forcing myself to quit,” she explained. “I just didn’t want to smoke anymore.” Beyond individual accounts, science has also shown hypnosis to be effective in smoking cessation. By directly addressing the subconscious, it bypasses the endless battle of willpower and offers a smoother path forward. Hospitals and clinics around the world now include hypnosis as part of smoking cessation programs, validating what clients at Indy Hypnosis have been experiencing for years. What makes this method stand out is not just the success of quitting but the permanence of the change. Instead of feeling deprived, clients feel free. Instead of counting days since their last cigarette, they begin building new routines filled with energy, confidence, and health. Breaking free from smoking is not about giving something up. It is about reclaiming life. Clients report breathing easier, feeling more energetic, and rediscovering a sense of control they thought they had lost forever. If you are ready to stop smoking for good and experience true freedom, schedule your free consultation with Indy Hypnosis today. The next chapter of your life can begin smoke-free.